Can A Straight Guy Fall In Love With A Gay Guy?

This probably and age old question, but can a straight guy really fall in love with a gay guy?  I've heard answers like 'anything is possible under the sun', it may be true but not a satisfactory answer to the question.  Some said that if a straight guy fall in love with a guy gay, then he is not really a straight guy.  He may not be totally gay but at least he's bisexual.

Any other views out there? or better yet, personal experiences?

8 comments:

  1. They say it can happen but i am still skeptical about it. Just like what they say that a gay can turn straight, some say it can. No one can really prove this is true except the person experiencing it and who know he is just lying.

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  2. Love is universal, regardless of gender, preference and status in life we can fall in love. Love breaks all boundaries and limits.

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  3. Let just say your statement is right, but what are the odds that a straight guy would fall in love with a gay guy?

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  4. I am a bit skeptic too, but let's just be open to possibilities, just as what Mark Kho said the love is universal, so who knows...

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  5. True. He's probably gay too. No straight guy fell for a gay guy. Well thats just me.

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  6. No, Of course not. They will never love us.
    I'm like something trash!

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  7. Sounds like you had a painful experience with loving a straight guy. I just believe that they can love and like gay men as a person but will never be romantically in love with gay men.

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  8. This is a story of my straight professor to me when i turned bisexual....


    "i was straight. There was a secretly gay guy whom I have been bestfriends with. We shared the same interests, sports, and hobbies that made it easier for us to get along. He was like a brother to me. One day we got drunk and he came out. He said he was gay and he was attracted to me. He didn't like me that way..he was just sexually attracted. There was a rough patch in our friendship but I chose to befriend him still. We were okay. He's still secretly gay but he can be himself around me. I got used to his facade and joked around with him. I never questioned my sexuality before cuz I'm really into girls. But then we got drunk again and joked around and next thing I know we were both out of our minds and he accidentally elbowed me at the crotch. I was in pain so he ran to get some ice. Him being my bestfriend and partner in crime, I did not hesitate to drop my pants and let him ice my balls(we used to compare bodies and penises in the sauna before he came out). I yelped in pain and he began freaking out so he grabbed my penis to shut me up. I, being nearly unconscious from all the alcohol, did not bother to do anything.. next thing i know, he was jerking me off and touching sensitive parts of my body and he began sucking my john. After a few seconds of realizing what he was doing, i was shocked and I shoved him away. It made me hate him. After three weeks of not talking to him, I kinda missed my old pal. So I decided to forgive him and move on. After all, we were both drunk. Every time I have sex with a girl, I just can't help but be curious and think about my bestfriend. To get it over with, I talked to him and we decided to try it out. To my surprise, I was pleasured by the sex. From then on, we would meet up from time to time to do it if I don't have a girlfriend. Being best friends and all, we got along in everything and he is so straight when he acts. I am actually a lot more vain than he is. From then on, I gradually shifted from dating girls to dating him in a brotherly way like basketball and games and stuff. I spend more time with him than usual. Time came when he finally went out and said that he was falling in love with me. I was dumbfounded. Cuz even though I didn't feel the same way, it just felt right to say it back. Anyway, I said it back and we began dating in real life. But a month later, I met a girl and I really did fall for her. Regardless if we got along or not, I loved her. I told my bestfriend the truth and he accepted it. He said he was expecting it. Cuz even though he is sexually attracted to guys, there is still a part of him that feels something special for girls. He understood. He let me go. Anyway, I told my girlfriend everything about me and my bestfriend. And she was okay with it. I called myself bisexual since then cuz I can openly tell myself that somehow, I did fall for my bestfriend. Anyway, this story was years ago... Now I am married to the girl I mentioned and we are having our second baby in a few months. My bestfriend is also got married a couple of years ago with a woman but he just couldn't resist it. He got his marriage annulled and now he's preparing for his marriage with his fiancée, Ethan. "

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